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The Institute of Love and Wisdom (ILW) offers intensive dating programs to find success in today’s dating scene. Love Coach and ILW Founder Rita Paiewonsky works with women like YOU, who desire to find true love and to create a long-lasting, soulmate relationship with your man.

Find true, lasting love

  • Intensive Soulmate Success dating program. 
  • Heart Wall Healing sessions
  • Conscious lovemaking: Tantra workshops.

Learn about soulmates

  • Read the ebook, “How to Find Your Soulmate,” to begin to discover the best choices and next steps for you. Available in English and Spanish. 

Watch Rita speak

  • See videos of Rita’s sound advice from the stage.
  • Hire Rita to speak at your next event.

Need advice ASAP?

Book a discovery call to talk with ILW’s founder, Rita Paiewonsky, as soon as possible. 

Join the Love and Wisdom Community

Find out about Rita’s top-selling ebook and online courses. Through the Intensive Soulmate Success Program, healing sessions, the ebook “How to Find your Soulmate” and my newsletters, you’ll gain practical wisdom to make your romantic dreams come true.


“I was fascinated by your presentation. You are an outstanding relationship guide for women who want to get closer to their partners. Things become easier once I understood our differences with men. My expectations have changed, I feel more patient and relaxed. I feel happier. I feel more appreciation for Jonathan and our relationship. God bless you!”

Karen, FL

Hi, I'm Rita.

founder of the Institute of Love and Wisdom.

Wise one, I’m so glad to see you here! When it comes to upleveling our dating and relationship skills… it’s never too late to become a better dater and lover. 

I founded this Institute to help you find and cherish the love of your life, your SOULMATE. It’s possible, no matter your situation, to create and enjoy a more fulfilling loving relationship. 

I believe it is a calling and our soul’s mission to grow together, in love. 

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