We all have emotional needs that need to be fulfilled for us to feel balanced.
Your emotional needs are inner cravings that when they are satisfied, make you feel happy and content. When they are unsatisfied, you are left to feel both empty and frustrated.
Understanding the biggest needs of men and women can totally change the dynamic and potential of your relationships.
Ignorance is one of the mayor causes of failures in relationships. Men try to meet the needs of a woman based on what they think is necessary and women do the same.
The problem is that men and women are different. Their most important needs are different, and they waste effort trying to meet the wrong needs of the other.
Some needs are so strong that when they’re not met, people will satisfy them outside the relationship. It may even cause them to break off with their partner or cheat.
To meet the other’s needs, good intentions alone are not enough. Creating a successful relationship requires skills and wisdom.
Learning how your needs can be met and how you can meet your partners needs is one of the most important relationship skills you can have.
It will certainly make you an “extraordinary partner”. That is what every single man and woman want to find!
We all have a Love Bank that is triggered when our emotional needs are met.
When some of your small needs are met, you may feel comfortable – a small Love Bank deposit came into in your account.
However, when an important need is met, it can trigger a feeling of happiness and fulfillment that could make you start falling in love with that person.
I call those needs the “most important emotional needs” because they make the largest Love Bank deposits of all.
The 10 most common emotional needs for men and women in a relationship are affection, admiration, communication, commitment, honesty, openness, physical attractiveness, recreational companionship, security and sexual fulfillment.
The problem is that the ones listed as most important by men are usually the ones least important for women, and vice-versa.
By now, you must be asking yourself “What’s the #1 need of a man and a woman and how can I fulfill it?”
Are you ready for the juicy part?
How to Fulfill Men’s #1 Emotional Need
Men crave praise and admiration more than anything else!
Men are powerless to resist the woman, who truly and wholeheartedly shows her admiration for him and what he does (specially if he s attracted to her).
To make him feel admired, first you must understand what he likes about himself. Ask yourself:
“How does he see himself?”
“Does he think he’s a good athlete or a wonderful businessman?”
This is critical because these qualities mean a lot to him. Praising him for something he values makes him feel that you truly understand him.
Don’t pretend you admire something about him that you really don’t, but when he does something impressive, let him know how amazing he is!
If he tries to minimize your compliment, look at him directly in the eyes and say, “Peter, I’m not asking you, I’m telling you. You really are such a great athlete”.
This works like magic because deep down he’s hoping you really mean it. When you follow up with the statement I’ve suggested he won’t just hear it, he will feel it.
Admiration is one of the easiest needs to meet, and you can make a big deposit in his Love account. However, at the same time you must also learn to control your criticism.
Unnecessary criticism is like a major withdraw of love units from his Love Bank. It can happen at an alarming rate!
How to Fulfill Women’s #1 Emotional Need
A woman’s greatest need of all is security.
It doesn’t matter whether she’s growing up with her parents or living with her husband. A woman needs to know she is safe and provided for in every aspect.
It is much more than just financial security.
How can you make a woman feel secure?
Communicate to her that you have the desire to meet her needs.
Show her with your actions that you care for her above anyone or anything else.
Make her feel special. A woman will blossom in an atmosphere of praise and adoration, and she can wilt and withdraw in the presence of perpetual silence or criticism.
Women are turned on by men who compliment them and make them feel good about themselves.
You cannot imagine the loyalty and love a woman will show a man, who genuinely cares for her. You will be pleasantly surprised by how well she responds to an atmosphere of security.
Both men and women long to find a selfless, generous, caring partner. This is especially true for women when it comes to their need for security.
In order to care for your partner in the right way, you must continuously make large Love Bank deposits for him/her.
When men and women learn to meet the most important needs for each other, they create great happiness and they trigger a mutual feeling of love.
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